Domestic Violence or Abuse
Domestic Violence or Abuse
We now know that Domestic Abuse can take many forms and can include child to parent abuse, elder abuse, sibling abuse and abuse between very young adults in relationships. The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 gives the following definition:
Domestic violence and abuse includes any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are or have been, intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. It also includes so called ‘honour’- based violence, female genital mutilation and forced marriage.
Everyone working within your Religious Life Group should ensure they are familiar with the Indicators and Signs of Domestic Violence or Abuse…
Domestic violence or abuse can be characterised by any of the indicators of abuse relating to:
Psychological
Physical
Sexual
Financial
Emotional
Coercive or controlling behaviour is a core part of domestic violence:
Acts of assault, intimidation, threats and humiliation
Harming, punishing or frightening the person
Isolating the person from sources of support
Exploitation of resources or money
Preventing the person from escaping abuse
Regulating everyday behaviour
I was heartbroken, scared, I had a lot of anxiety, I was worried, I felt weak, and I had no idea how I was ever going to come up with the strength. But I just closed my eyes and took a blind leap. I knew I had to get out of there.
Bob Casey Jr
Low self-esteem
Feeling that the abuse is their fault when it is not
Physical evidence of violence such as bruising, cuts, broken bones
Verbal abuse and humiliation in front of others
Fear of outside intervention
Damage to home or property
Isolation – not seeing friends or family
Limited access to money
Support for those who have experienced or been affected by Domestic Violence or Abuse