Learning from the past…

Spiritual direction is one name given to a ministry that has been practised in the Church for centuries. At its heart is the practice of listening; listening to the story of another. Some prefer to use the term ‘spiritual accompaniment’ or ‘spiritual guidance’. A person offering spiritual direction, offers to listen and discern with another.

Some practitioners prefer terms such as “spiritual companioning” or “spiritual friendship,” to avoid the misperception that any authoritative steering takes place. Instead, the relationship seeks to provide a safe, respectful, and confidential space for individuals to explore divine presence at work in their lives. The person seeking guidance on their spiritual journey is traditionally called a directee. However, the spiritual director does not impose theological beliefs or agendas, trusting God’s presence to reveal itself through a person’s own interests, perceptions, and wisdom.

Sometimes it was accepted practice that a written Safeguarding Statement was left for directees to read upon arrival at a Retreat or at the beginning of their Spiritual Accompaniment sessions. Understandably this could feel awkward and impersonal and did not create an environment of understanding.

While there is still place for written contracts, we now understand the need for a verbal conversation regarding the limits of confidentiality and a brief but compassionate explanation of the safeguarding responsibilities of the person offering Spiritual Accompaniment. This should take place before any accompaniment begins.